Daily Archives: November 10, 2009

I am a woman who has absolutely wonderful orgasm all the time from manual or oral stimulation, but never from just intercourse. Is there something wrong with me?

Question:
I am a woman who has absolutely wonderful orgasm all the time from manual or oral stimulation, but never from just intercourse. Is there something wrong with me?

Answer:
Most women can easily achieved orgasm with manual and oral stimulation because it is easy to stimulate these sensitive organs continuously with fingers and tongue that can be done for a long time since these organs do not need to be in an erected state as in the case of the penis. The penis cannot be in an erected state for long without stimulation and can make the man to climax which result in the loss of erection. Therefore the problem lies with the man and not the woman and the issue might be rapid ejaculation. I would strongly recommend the woman to be more focused when her partner penetrates her and start the penile thrust and position herself to get the sufficient stimulation to her most sensitive parts to achieve climax in a shorter time. She can work on this with her partner. If her partner is a rapid ejaculator then he has to go for therapy. There are techniques and medications available for this.