Monthly Archives: August 2008

Varicose Veins

Question: I seem to have purple or dark-colored varicose veins on my penis! How did it happen? Is it dangerous? Is there any way to remove them without surgery?
Answer: Adult penis when fully erect will have tortuous veins and the penile head will appear bluish and showing pink or reddish streaks. These are not varicose veins. However one can get varicose veins when one masturbates excessively. Considering the penile skin is thick, the varicose veins are not easily bruised during sexual intercourse. I have yet to see men with varicose veins of the penis. Most of the time the varicose veins can be rectified by tying off the afflicted vein.

Too Slippery for Sex

Question:
My partner has been telling me that recently when we’re having sex she gets “too wet” and that it numbs her up and she can’t orgasm. Is that possible? I have no idea what to do, please help!

Answer:
Sex can be a wonderful experience if both parties enjoy every moment of it. If one party feels uncomfortable, the other party needs to make adjustment to ensure the issue is resolved. Sometimes it takes courage to make an appointment with the Sexologist or Therapist to discuss the situation and to get professional remedy. Being too wet can be a turn off to both the woman and her partner. Sometimes it is the women that feel the displeasure since the wetness is due to her partner’s precome secretions that were too abundant to her liking. If that is an issue, the partner needs to take antihistamine before having sex so that his precome is less copious. If on the other hand the copious secretions are coming from her she need to get herself examined if the secretions are due to vaginal irritations caused by some irritants or contaminations. This condition is known as leucorrhea or white discharge. Sometimes mild vaginal irritation can cause the discomfort and the numbing or blistering feeling and leucorrhea. If the secretions are just the result of hyperactive cervical secretions or vaginal mucosal lining, the secretions can also be reduced by taking antihistamines prior to sex. She can soaked her private part with alum to tighten the mucosa or take capsules of Oak Gall extract (available in most pharmacy as an OTC Product) and if all these measures are futile, she needs to see a Gynecologist.

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The Wandering Eye

Question:
Hello, I have a question for you. Why is it that when men find a woman, one woman isn’t enough? Why do they think they have the right to check out everybody else in the world and visit the flesh market on the Internet every chance they get? Why is it that men don’t think that looking at naked women is wrong against their mate? That it’s entertainment for them? They have no moral values. That’s what’s wrong with the world today. Why can’t a man be content with the woman he’s got?
Answer:
I am afraid there is no one answer to that question. If one were to trace the origin of man one is reminded of the cave man antics when it comes to sex, that is, they will mate with as many cavewomen as they can to breed and expand the flock. Women are their common possession. If one were to refer to the Biblical Scriptures one will be reminded of Abel and Cain, or Habil and Qabil the sons of Adam and the main reason for Cain to kill Abel is because of his passion for Abel’s would be wife, his very own sister! In the same scriptures one is reminded of the Prophet David who impregnated Bathsheba, the wife of his loyal soldier and how he became impotent as the result of that! One is also reminded that one is made to respond and answer to one’s biological need and that is sex. One is reminded of this ancient Hindu belief that once man and woman were one and due to some curse, they were separated and since then their bodies have been wondering to be together, may be with many bodies before they are settled with the right one! Sigmund Freud the father of Psychoanalysis has always reminded us that we are made to be sexual and that is seen by our attitude and behaviour, after all who made the twin towers or any towers those are in actuality a representation of the phallus or the ‘lingam’ (penis) and the various shopping malls, houses and garages those are in actuality the representation of the cunnus, or the ‘yoni’ (vagina).Having said all that we are indeed a sexual being .God has given us that special element that has brought us above all living things and that is the thinking mind that gives us the power to be in control of our lives which also includes our sex drive and lust. Therefore we are responsible to our own doings. We need to take charge of ourselves. Then the World will be a lovely place to live and everybody is happy. Then there is no World!