Monthly Sexoscope - February 2012
Aries:
A disharmonious aspect of transiting Venus to Pluto brings an increase of your sensuous vital energies. This means that your affections will be accentuated during the time of this astrological aspect. An increase of your personal energy level in principle is of neutral character, that is to say, neither harmonious nor disharmonious, since this depends a great deal on your will.
A disharmonious astrological aspect, without a doubt, could incline you to express that energy in an unbalanced way or against your natural character. That is to say, your affectionate energy could have psychological manifestations of a disharmonious character, such as jealousy, excessive attachment to your loved one, or trying to impose your whims on your mate by more or less subtle methods. It is advisable to become aware of this and to control certain instinctive tendencies that now could emerge.
Remember that happiness in your relationship, the integration with your loved one, and your personal accomplishment depends a great deal on the respect you have for yourself and each other. Avoid capricious, disrespectful or out of place reactions, and try to amend this kind of conduct and extreme attitudes, always cultivating a moderate and balanced behavior.
Taurus:
Avoid egocentric attitudes and learn to share your decisions with your mate, as you now tend to act on your own without consulting your loved one beforehand. Your companion could be annoyed, because you are speeding up the pace too much in matters that actually relate to both of you. Thus, there could be a case in which you launched some initiative without having counted on him/her sufficiently. And as a consequence, your companion may be burdened with part of the work for which you are responsible.
Therefore both of you should jointly plan the next steps you are going to take, which should not be seen as a loss of your own decisive capacity. Rather, exactly the opposite, since deciding jointly will suppose greater wisdom at the time of carrying out your plan of action. Your mate will help you to be more moderate, balanced and equitable, which, without a doubt, will increase your possibilities of success. This conciliation of objectives between both of you will make you happier as a couple and, at the same time, each of you will be more successful in your family, profession and, as a rule, in the every day world.
By the end of February there will be harmony between your need to be open, amused and loved on one hand, and your family responsibilities or relationship to your parents on the other hand. Thus, if you are involved in a love relationship now, you will find that the interrelationship will be more and better accepted by your family.
Gemini:
This disharmonious aspect of transiting Jupiter to Venus exalts your sensuous and affectionate energies and inclines toward an intensive search for happiness. Certainly, during this time you are apt to have very sweet experiences in connection with love and the senses, beauty and social relationships, small luxuries and whims, as well as entertainment and amusing yourself. Evidently, these activities require support, normally in the form of time, expenses and money. It is advisable not to let yourself get financially stripped by spending on clothes, meals at restaurants, weekends at hotels, organizing holidays and events with the intend of pleasing your companion and keeping up with your social or friendships circle. All of this may bring great satisfaction and pleasure during the time of the holiday, but thereafter you may have to deal with large invoices and hard work to pay them.
If you are not involved with anyone, you now could meet many persons of the opposite sex, but actually will establish very superficial relationships. Don't rush your decisions on the emotional plane, since this could disturb your inner balance. It is preferable to maintain only a level of friendship until an intense emotional spark emerges in you, since proving yourself continually generates certain confusion.
It is advisable to first establish a good friendship and thereafter a romance. However, if you are single during this time, you probably will be induced to have superficial and short experiences. Analyze objectively if this produces self-realization in you, or minimally, personal satisfaction. Decide accordingly.
Cancer:
If you are married or have children, it is a good time to guarantee your personal individual integration with your family environment, living the fact that "the personal path of evolution starts in the family". You see that by emitting noble energies, the energies returned to you are also of high and protective character. It is a good time to try and make your household a bright spot, full of warmth, conscience and protection. At least, at this time it is very clear to you that even attempting it is worth the trouble, and that success can be achieved with a little effort.
It is possible that a small disagreement or misunderstanding with a loved one could emerge, but try to soothe your spirits and control yourself. Don't make any emotional decision based on states of psychological irritability,
There could be hypersensitivity and resentment. More than anything, relaxation and psychic neutrality is important for being able to see things with objectivity. If you have been accumulating small animosities or misunderstandings with someone in the past, it is very possible that suddenly everything will come to light. When that happens, don't argue, but simply communicate, try to create an environment of mutual confidence and don't magnify things. Don't be melodramatic now, and don't deem yourself a victim of others. Consider the future, propose solutions and have sufficient greatness of the soul to forgive.
Leo:
This astrological aspect stirs up your emotional life; that is to say, an escalation and revitalization on that level will be produced. Thus, the big problem will be to control that increase in energy in your mental states, your feelings, and your family and affectionate relationships. There will be ardor, delivery, sacrifice and spontaneity in your emotional life, but susceptibility, irritability and passion could also emerge. All in all, this is a phase in which many things in your sentimental and family relationships will be defined.
It is possible that a small disagreement or misunderstanding with a loved one could emerge, but try to soothe your spirits and control yourself. Don't make any emotional decision based on states of psychological irritability,
Later in February: Your feelings are fine and pure now, and at the same time you will want contact with beauty, amusement, aesthetics and art as way of releasing your creative inspiration.
Virgo:
You need to be comprehensive, sensitive, respectful and communicative with your mate now. If you think that your loved one has offended you in some way, irritated you or has hurt your feelings, don't dramatize things and clear things up right away. It is preferable to let your feelings flow continually, without being attached to the mistakes of the past and without holding on to the susceptibilities of the present. It is necessary to transcend, to have confidence in your loved one, and to observe as well as being observed. See love as something simple and don't complicate things simply by complicating them. Get to know your companion better and at the same time you will come to know yourself better. If both of you co-operate conscientiously facing self-realization, the results will shortly be very important.
A disharmonious aspect of transiting Venus to Pluto brings an increase of your sensuous vital energies. This means that your affections will be accentuated during the time of this astrological aspect. An increase of your personal energy level in principle is of neutral character, that is to say, neither harmonious nor disharmonious, since this depends a great deal on your will.
If you are not involved with anyone, this is a good time to establish a lasting and interesting relationship, probably on a trip or in a different place.
Libra:
A harmonious aspect of transiting Jupiter to Moon expands your family relationships. This astrological vibration brings very positive and harmonious energies that will benefit your paternal household as well as your conjugal family in case you are married. Fundamentally, you will be more open, optimistic, generous and affectionate with the members of your family. If you have children, you will be more mothering, good-natured and very vital in your relationship to them.
Briefly, this harmonious influence increases the quality of your romantic and family relationships in general, above all, because the people involved in the relationship now are more receptive and able to take things more philosophically. All this supports greater happiness, strengthens your emotional ties, and brings the possibility of enjoying new experiences, conversing about interesting topics, and agreeing more on matters that relate to the whole family.
You now tend to idealize your romantic relationships more, and can see beyond what you only have glimpsed before. If a small susceptibility or emotional problem arises, you are able to surpass it quickly thanks to your kindness and spirit of generosity. That is to say, you have an understanding attitude, common sense, are wise and very respectful. You will find that almost any family situation, relationship to children, romance, courtship or marriage can be solved without great difficulties or burdens. This astrological aspect helps to transcend above emotional susceptibilities and permits you to be most optimistic, positive and vital.
Scorpio:
A transiting aspect of Venus to your Moon represents emotional exaltation. That is to say, during the time of this transit you are going to have a great need for love, intimacy and understanding. To channel these feelings properly it is necessary to live, experience and practice that "to receive one must give". In other words, don't take on a passive attitude waiting for others to approach you and kiss you, embrace you or express that they want you.
It is necessary to avoid emotional changes, and especially, that these variations don't affect the way you treat your loved ones. If you make the mistake of reacting to them in a superfluous or capricious way, in return they obviously will hesitate to object if they have a disagreement with you. If at a given moment you happen to suffer an emotional low or an intensive high, try to exercise self-control so that those fluctuations do not affect your daily way of behavior with your family or your loved one.
Don't be too utopian or idealistic, if you are looking for your ideal mate, since all things have to begin by a principle and rise gradually. There isn't any couple that is perfect for each other from the time they have met. It is necessary to let time go by, to mature, to pass corresponding tests and little by little acquiring greater mutual confidence. That is to say, to accomplish your ideal of a couple or a family, you have to work at it from day to day. If you are not involved with anyone, you probably will meet many people during this astrological aspect, but the greater part of those encounters are apt to be very fleeting.
Sagittarius:
During the time of this harmonious aspect of transiting Sun to Venus your sensuous and affectionate feelings will be accentuated, that is to say, will be expressed clearly; without shyness, disguise or any complex. You now are sure of your feelings and need to revitalize them by sharing them openly with your mate. There is a better understanding between you and your loved one, since you experience that through your love relationship your own personal limits are transcended.
If you are in love with someone and up until now have not expressed your feelings, it probably would be a good time to do it, provided that you are sure and know for certain that your selection is right. If you already have someone or are married, use this chance to reaffirm your love for them, since that revitalizes the feelings for both of you.
Enjoy any moment of happiness that you could have now and you will see that happiness attracts happiness and what is high is integrated with the high. Understand, live and experience love as something that is simultaneously produced on several levels, that is to say, in the physical dominance as well as the emotional, mental and spiritual. The more global and total your idea and vivacity of love will be, the greater the importance of the experiences in your life will be.
Capricorn:
A disharmonious aspect of transiting Venus to Pluto brings an increase of your sensuous vital energies. This means that your affections will be accentuated during the time of this astrological aspect. An increase of your personal energy level in principle is of neutral character, that is to say, neither harmonious nor disharmonious, since this depends a great deal on your will. A disharmonious astrological aspect, without a doubt, could incline you to express that energy in an unbalanced way or against your natural character.
That is to say, your affectionate energy could have psychological manifestations of a disharmonious character, such as jealousy, excessive attachment to your loved one, or trying to impose your whims on your mate by more or less subtle methods. It is advisable to become aware of this and to control certain instinctive tendencies that now could emerge. Remember that happiness in your relationship, the integration with your loved one, and your personal accomplishment depends a great deal on the respect you have for yourself and each other. Avoid capricious, disrespectful or out of place reactions, and try to amend this kind of conduct and extreme attitudes, always cultivating a moderate and balanced behavior.
You have to learn to relax, to take your time, and to give your sensuous appetites a creative impulse, which neither more nor less is the basis of total sexuality.
Aquarius:
Don't forget that love is something sensitive, intuitive and relaxing, and the affectionate event indirectly helps to strengthen the will, spirit and optimism of the daily experiences. Don't subdue or put off love until next week, next month or when your problems may have been solved. By doing that, you certainly would be losing a great opportunity to amend and improve the course of events from now on.
To a degree you now have to contend with a series of tests that make it difficult for you to make specific time for your work and other periods of time for your romantic life or family. However, this is precisely the key to your current situation. When you are firm, decisive, controlled and effective during the hours you devote to your work, squeezing them to the maximum, you can leave with a clear conscience knowing that you have given your all. However, when you have ended your occupational session, let aside your practical as well as psychological work. Now is the time for relaxing, enjoying yourself, communicating sentimentally and making love. This is the balsam that actually submits high and sufficient energy levels on the following day so that you can attack your professional responsibilities.
However, if you meet your mate in the afternoon or at night with a hot head and a preoccupied mind, then you are not observing the balance between work and leisure, or balance between investment of energy and re-creation of energy.
Pisces:
This disharmonious aspect of transiting Jupiter to Venus exalts your sensuous and affectionate energies and inclines toward an intensive search for happiness. Certainly, during this time you are apt to have very sweet experiences in connection with love and the senses, beauty and social relationships, small luxuries and whims, as well as entertainment and amusing yourself. Evidently, these activities require support, normally in the form of time, expenses and money.
It is advisable not to let yourself get financially stripped by spending on clothes, meals at restaurants, weekends at hotels, organizing holidays and events with the intend of pleasing your companion and keeping up with your social or friendships circle. All of this may bring great satisfaction and pleasure during the time of the holiday, but thereafter you may have to deal with large invoices and hard work to pay them.
If you are thinking about getting married or taking a pleasure trip, also take into account the preceding advice so that you actually can enjoy your free time without any future worries about payments. Thus, make preparations to enjoy life without large delusions, and value the small details the same as the large events. Modest gestures of good taste procure large things, since a gift is not necessarily better the larger or more expensive it is. Perfume can be an excellent gift, but is considered something simple.
Source: www.sexualastrology.com


