Monthly Sexoscope - September 2011
Aries:
A conjunction of transiting Venus and Pluto activates your sexual and sensuous energies. Because of it's powerful strength, it is advisable to become aware of it and to understand that sexual energy in reality is a specific manifestation of "total vital energy" of the human being.
The wide concept of sexuality implies a connection between ourselves and the environment, specifically, an interrelationship between ourselves and others. This tuning in takes place on several levels (physical, emotional and mental). This means that complete manifestation of sexual energy requires a couple's awareness on different levels.
To have a completely fulfilling sexual relationship it is necessary to complement each other physically, to have adequate emotional dynamics, a good level of intellectual communication, and a certain rapport or blending of goals and purpose in life. That it is what we understand as spiritual level.
Taurus:
A disharmonious aspect of transiting Sun to Venus brings an increase in your sensuous vital energy, which can incline you to certain excesses. For example, you now could feel a great desire for amusement and expansion, and may even want to escape from your daily grind going to a dance with your mate, dining out, going to a club, or preparing an exceptional weekend. Obviously, there is nothing wrong with it in general, unless these kind of activities are carried to excess.
It isn't so much the fact of wanting to live well, but rather to control yourself and stay within your means. If you are not careful, the following weeks could be a narrow squeeze of money, since you over spent on details, gifts or outings to such a degree that you actually are left without anything in the budget for the rest of the month. Don't give so much importance to the size or quantity of your entertainments, since a simple gift in a given moment can have great sentimental value.
It is very important for you to have an active sexual or physical relationship now, but also consider that it is essential to have psychological understanding with your mate as well as self-realization. You want to devote long periods of time to intense communication with your companion, since you have a need to exchange experiences, share your life together, poll your every day life, understand him/her better psychologically as well as to understand yourself better and, in fact, to perfect yourself.
Gemini:
A disharmonious aspect of transiting Sun to Moon doesn't have too much strength, but can be used to amend certain imbalances in your family relationships. Fundamentally, you tend to go to opposite extremes and find it hard to stay on the middle ground. In the first place, at given times you are inclined to be too individualistic, arrogant and self-sufficient in your family relationships.
You tend to impose your own points of view and do it in a certain shaky, capricious way according to your emotional state at the moment in question. In other cases you will be inclined to the opposite extreme, that is to say, to be attached and to depend too much on what could be called the "family warmth". In this case you prefer to depend on the family unit before venturing out and solving your own problems.
A harmonious aspect between Venus and Moon towards the end of September indicates the escalation of your personal romanticism. Your imagination is intensified now, especially, since your surroundings provide a stimuli and small daily events that make you agreeable and merry. In this respect, you could receive a gift, a call, have a special meaningful encounter, or simply will observe that some of your loved ones respond to you in a vibrant, cozy and warm way. During this short period of time, there is harmony between your need to be open, amused and loved on one hand, and your family responsibilities or relationship to your parents on the other hand. Thus, if you are involved in a love relationship now, you will find that the interrelationship will be more and better accepted by your family.
Cancer:
You tend to express your emotional, affectionate and sensuous feelings direct and spontaneous now, but try not to become excessively passionate. When an affectionate and romantic relationship is directed toward passion, dissonant elements or distortions, such as jealousy, intending to impose your own will on your companion, or expressing egocentric attitudes will emerge.
Take into account that love means to resign, in the sense that one must moderate aspects of oneself to find the balance with one's mate. Thus, if you are very impulsive and your mate is more conservative, both will have to relinquish to find a middle point in which the two of you are comfortable, the same is true the other way around. This continuous search for the middle ground and balance in a relationship of courtship or marriage brings the integration of the couple to perfection and self-realization.
During the time of this aspect towards the end of September it is advisable to acquire a greater vision of the positive elements that sentimentally are forming part of your life; thus, if you give inner thanks for the good things happening to you, it is very probable that they are expanded and magnified. Don't concentrate on things you lack or would like to possess emotionally, it would be preferable to put your psyche on positive things and what is good for your family and sentimental relationships. In some way, perfection in human relationships is impossible.
Leo:
This harmonious aspect of transiting Mars to Pluto generates an increase of your sexual and vital energy. Sexual energy is bound to self-confidence, which increases your total energy and personal magnetism during this period. It is a good time to deepen the interrelationship that exists between managing sexual energy and total vital energy. Sexual energy is a manifestation of total vital energy, and when sexual energy is used adequately, vital energy is increased. If you now have a satisfying sexual life you will observes that your personal energy will increase.
Briefly, real sexuality does not consist of squandering your own energy, but exchanging it in an act in which psychological penetration, confidence and understanding with your mate exists. Thus, when mutual confidence and respect exists, sexual energy is exchanged and not wasted or worn. That is to say, this kind of relationship doesn't squander vital energy, but exactly the opposite, since each partner is more revitalized through the act of making love.
By mid September you could be led by instinctive behavior such as jealousy, egocentricity or superiority. If you watch yourself during those times, assuredly you will be able to correct and control them. Try to approach your companion in-depth, giving less importance to the appearance and paying more attention to the feelings, impressions and thoughts within each of you. It is advisable to enter the dynamics of mutual understanding, which means disregarding fleeting things and concentrating on what is important. Thus, you learn to share your ideal, the sense that each of you give to the other's life and your future projects.
Virgo:
This astrological aspect during the beginning of the month September inclines to generate certain tests, hindrances or concerns in your sensuous relationship, but that is only the principle of a fruitful era of greater emotional and sensuous deepening. During this time you may be a bit reserved with your mate, but this will serve as notice to maintain greater dynamics of communication with your companion. If either of you has a complaint or if something about your mate bothers you, express it immediately in a respectful way.
The worst you can do now is to accumulate small resentments that afterwards could develop into disagreements without a real basis. Talk about your character, your way of doing things, and the difficulties you are having at the time you don't understand each other. You are learning to take the relationship of a couple as a dynamic interrelationship between two different molds, that is to say, between two different psychological characters. If you take these small clashes of character as an opportunity to evolve and be happier in your relationship with your mate, each time you will surpass those small disagreements with greater ease and rapidity.
If you are not involved with anyone, the end of September could be a time when you are enamored quickly and may approach someone that is attractive to you, but you may do it in a daring or untimely way. If you don't moderate your impulse, it is very probable that you may be rejected, since others will see you a bit sharp or discourteous.
Libra:
Your romantic sensibility is potent during the beginning of September and because of this you tend to see things through rose colored glasses. It is advisable to adopt some measures so that these moments of fullness are extended in the right direction.
For example, use this period of time for sincerity with your mate, discover aspects in him/her that before you had not valued sufficiently and, in fact, transcend your personal love by approaching love honestly and not egotistically.
By the end of the month September your psychological state probably will fluctuate from the height of superficial happiness to extreme melancholia and a sense of isolation. In reality, there are two kinds of vibrations that prevent you from maintaining an even course, but are continually tilting from one extreme to the other. It is advisable to take some time for personal reflection, thinking about your more recent affectionate or sentimental experiences, before reacting or acting without previous contemplation. Now is the time to look deeper into your real psyche, avoiding at all cost to express your feelings outwardly without having sufficiently worked out what comes from within.
Scorpio:
This harmonious astrological aspect, until September 12th, energizes your emotions. That is to say, you will feel more competent to express your mental and emotional states in an open way, which causes you to be more direct and spontaneous in your sentimental relationships and, especially, with your family. If you usually are shy, it is a good time to exercise emotional advantage, self-confidence and direct expression of your emotional states.
As a rule, you will be more inclined to define circumstances, to participate actively, to decide and take part in family problems. In other words, you will prefer to take part in family decisions, and in that way try to improve conditions in your family, or solve problems that have been delayed or stagnant for some time. You never will avoid your part of responsibility that touches the dynamics of your family.
If you are in a period of courtship, don't think that by simply maintaining an apparently harmonious, fun and happy keynote during this phase guarantees that the future relationship will endure in time. There has to be a fundamental understanding between you, and not only the illusion of having a good time, going dancing or enjoying yourselves with friends.
Sagittarius:
During the month of September there will be strong emotions between you and your mate, and you will discover aspects of your own subconscious as well as feelings of your companion that up until now you had not been able to perceive. If you are not involved with anyone, it is advisable to be calm and relaxed and try to see people as they really are. It could be dangerous to idealize or put on a pedestal the first person you meet and is preferable to allow the relationship to mature before you completely trust them, and above all, base your relationship on an intensive communication.
Don't look for someone to solve your own problems, since an affectionate relationship is strengthened when each one is more positive and gives the best of himself. It is preferable to think and feel positive before speaking about problems, complaining or feeling ashamed. If you are realistic, you will be able to tell if a person is compatible with you or if he/she is likely to cause problems and suffering for you.
To have a completely fulfilling sexual relationship it is necessary to complement each other physically, to have adequate emotional dynamics, a good level of intellectual communication, and a certain rapport or blending of goals and purpose in life. That it is what we understand as spiritual level.
Capricorn:
This astrological aspect increases your sensuous and affectionate energy. Thus, you will be impelled to express your emotions spontaneously, direct and on occasions a bit sharp. In love it is not only necessary to want much, but also to want well, therefore it is recommendable to moderate and soothe your emotional reactions. Don't forget that in the relationship of a couple the aesthetic details, refinement and good taste is also important. Declare your love for your companion in a sweet, respectful and comprehensive way, as too much passion could bring jealousy.
Passionate love is one thing and another very different thing is loving passionately, and it is necessary to establish a boundary between one and the other. Not going directly to the point will be a little more romantic, gallant, amiable and genteel.
The end of the month September is a good time to reflect on the influence you received from your family throughout life, observing and stimulating the more positive aspects. If you harbor recollections that generated susceptibility, fears or small animosities in the past, you will also be able to see the positive experience that these provided. You will find that a good part of your current level of maturity is due to the way in which such experiences were absorbed. That is to say, if you allow yourself to be carried by susceptibility, the assimilating past experiences will not end; but on the other hand, if you are able to see the positive side of the family dynamics, your personal security will increase and you will be completely free of small complexities or fears generated in past eras of your life. Briefly, the family relationship will be viewed by you as something complex, but always enrich you.
Aquarius:
A disharmonious aspect of transiting Mars to Pluto during the beginning of the month September greatly increases your vital and sensuous energies. Your desires, feelings and even passions can be quite high, which makes it necessary to control, moderate and soften these forces. You tend to express yourself with strong emotions and great psychological vigor, but on occasion could be a bit sharp or slightly explosive. Thus, you will also have to control your imagination, in order not to exaggerate or be obsessed by small details in your relationship.
For example, there could be groundless jealousy with respect to your companion, or you may attempt to impose your decision on him/her. If you think that your mate has offended you, or you are hurt by something that recently happened between you, it is best to express it clearly, with respect and as soon as possible. If both of you would be accumulating concerns or susceptibilities, they would come to light quickly in the near future and would have to be discussed unnecessarily.
If you currently are not involved with anyone, it is an auspicious time to establish a relationship with someone that attracts you because of their artistic talent, depth of character, sensibility, or because you feel that it is a person of very high character. This could be the beginning of a very close and probably lasting relationship.
Pisces:
A transit during mid September brings an increase in your total vital energy. You will become more aware of your own psyche that up until now had been hidden. To a degree this tendency toward self-understanding is due to the relationship with your partner and can be especially intense during the period of this astrological aspect. It is possible that a small irritation emerges between you and your companion, which simply is a normal developing process of your relationship. Those small frictions serve to polish the raw diamond that both of you have within and will secure the control of your egocentric attitudes. Without a doubt, in love relationships an effort is needed to transcend the personal levels.
Love relationships require changing or modifying imperfect aspects of our character in order to awaken psychological virtues that up until now had been dormant. On certain occasions this process is accompanied by a small crisis in the relationship, but always turns out to be positive and evolutionary, if self-control is practiced.
If you are in love with someone and up until now have not expressed your feelings, it probably would be a good time to do it, provided that you are sure and know for certain that your selection is right. If you already have someone or are married, use this chance to reaffirm your love for them, since that revitalizes the feelings for both of you.
Source: www.sexualastrology.com

